The Still Point Retreat
“To spend a concentrated period of time in silence and meditation is always a gift to yourself and brings its […]
“To spend a concentrated period of time in silence and meditation is always a gift to yourself and brings its […]
High stress levels, fatigue and emotional overwhelm are in abundance these days and on the downside, these things affect our […]
I love this quote, for I really agree with the why settle for less BUT I would also highlight, the […]
We all hold stories about ourselves, what we can do what we can’t do; our preferences, things we love and […]
Today I want you to undertake a little exercise. Carve out 30-60 minutes and sit down and write out how […]
There’s a path of tension, doubt, overwhelm and frenzy you can take with this pandemic. Or a path of creativity […]
I often teach about our personal seasons. Summer being hot, full, lengthy and abundant, but also with the chance of burnout. Autumn being […]
We must abandon the idea that stability exists. Change is the only thing that is constantly happening. It’s the only thing that […]
There is very little that I do without my ego chiming in about what a bad job I am doing […]
Today I want to ask you, what is the thing that you’re putting off? Not ’the big dream’, but the small […]
The brain and mind we tend to flog, relentlessly. If we want to be brain and mind fit, we need […]
One of the simplest and most effective tools I am ALWAYS banging on about, aside from Integrated Meditation, is powering down […]
Often resilience is viewing as a strength, a tough as nails approach, unwavering attitude after so much endurance. But, resilience […]
Our relationship to ourselves is the most important relationship we have. Yet it is often shelved due the demands placed […]
Zen meditation teacher Susan Murphy writes in her brilliant book Upside Down Zen, “Meditation is lonely as any practice is lonely […]
I think we all know we’re probably pushing it a little hard. We all have past experience with burnout, having lit ourselves alight […]
‘Happiness is your natural state. You don’t have to do anything to acquire it, because you have it already’ says […]
When we began to work with the term High Grade Living, it really meant intentional living, elevated to enjoy life […]
The challenge we have with a lot of modern spirituality and modern meditation is all the spiritual bypass and nonsense […]
It’s so desirable to make the ‘right decision’ and so challenging in knowing what the heck that is without all […]
This is really a follow on from yesterday, which was a Letter to you about the challenges that expectations bring […]
In truth I found this little Letter sitting on my desktop, and now I am unsure if I have already […]
I would also add to power, is the education about oneself. To know oneself is to understand our conditioning and […]
Can you even fathom this?? In one century, we’ve added 28 years to our average life span – a change so […]
This week I really, really felt drawn to working with our emotional landscape, neuroscience and relationship to technology and social […]
How the ego LOVES to welcome an imagined persecution and prepare an attack? Have you ever noticed how much time […]
I work with so many creatives, and frequently the biggest block to building anything in this world, is the idea […]
I have of late been diving more deeply into studying the Tao Te Ching and the Heart Sutra. The wisdom […]
Hello lovely reader, I have fallen into a haphazard matter of writing these Letters to you. Without the self imposed […]
I love this story, for it demonstrates how quickly we can get caught up in concepts, and delusional about where […]
As a follow on from the last Letter, I thought it would be helpful to return to our intentions behind […]
We cannot control our lives. Read it again. It took me way too long to grasp this and I still […]
Spend one day, but make it the entire day, in being acutely aware of how many preferences you lug around, […]
One of the very common pitfalls of self development and spirituality is spiritual bypass. Spiritual bypass is where spiritual practice […]
Nearly all our automated responses to situations were formed before we turned 7 years of age. So tiny! When we […]
I am often teaching students, don’t sweat your actual seated meditation, do it, and see the results in your daily […]
I don’t know about you, but I have been experiencing huge waves of grief, sadness and anger. It might be […]
Our bodies are the host for our consciousness, and when we are fatigued, physically have overdone it, or unwell, consciousness […]
This week marks a year since we went into lockdown in the UK. Many countries were ahead of this, or […]
If you wait for the perfect moment to create, you’ll be waiting a lifetime. Our job is to get our body […]
One of the often unnerving things that come with wisdom, is seeing parts of ourselves, that once recognised, cannot be […]
When we prepare a recipe, there’s much that goes into it before the moment of eating. The creative process, the […]
If you had all the money in the world, how would you spend your time?If you had no one to […]
If you have been a student of mine for awhile, or reader of these Letters, you will have at some […]
I know, yet six weeks into this year, there is much weariness. A fatigue, that became like a heavy coat […]
There are some days when we find this impossibly hard. The idea that everything can speak to us of passion […]
Whatever the question, Love is always a good answer. So simple, right? Nonetheless, I find it sometimes hard to remember, […]
“Yet”, a powerful word, brimming with potential and possibilities, the perfect finisher to many sentences, the opener of doors, the […]
Before technology and modern times, people used to be far more attuned to nature, to the rhythms of the universe, […]
Humour is one of my core values, it gives me energy, inspiration, connection. It has the ability to reset me, […]
This is a lovely way of describing that we have no idea of our enormous potential as humans, the gigantic […]
Have you ever sat and eaten a meal with someone who on that occasion was rushing through their food, barely […]
As we close off for the year, and I come to enter into a gorgeous little sabbatical that I will be […]
Can you hold your sorrow more loosely? Could it be easily blown away with the wind, the seasons? How do you ensure […]
Wisdom is knowledge put into action, refined over many seasons, carved out through many storms. Wisdom is acceptance of what […]
Being a human can be challenging stuff, we’re an intricate web of thoughts, bias, prejudice, conditioning and the expressing of […]
Sifu Shi Yan Ming is RZA from Wu Tang Clan’s teacher (sifu) in kung-fu, and I really like this simple […]
At any given point in time, we never really know what’s actually going on. We have the experience, the moment, […]
Today choose one single thing that can elevate you to your highest grade self. Is it… – drinking two litres […]
I have been doing a lot of Workplace Program work, and the fatigue and burn out is real right now. […]
The Tao Te Ching for me highlights the eternal mystery and connection to everything we have in the world. We […]
Isn’t this brilliant. How can we be afraid of that which we don’t know? What we are really afraid of is […]
Have you ever gotten so caught up in a story that you couldn’t see the forest for the trees? This […]
A victim mentality can really block us from a whole lot of connection with other people. The ego bleating that […]
Viewing our world, our lives, our experiences from a lens of abundance versus a lens of lack is something very […]
Balance is tricky, as it doesn’t take into account our forever shifting psychology, neurology and physiology. What might seem like […]
Energetic boundaries are fascinating, not just on social media, but also within workplaces, and families. With the work I do […]
What if this was it? You standing in your kitchen, in your underpants, holding your phone, reading this? Kettle is […]
Are you waking up and first thing in the morning checking your phone? Or are you creating sacred space in […]
If you missed yesterday’s Letter and intention for the next coming Letters, you can catch up HERE. Today’s Letter will […]
I am doing a lot of private mentoring at the moment, with students around the world, and the same themes […]
As Ram Dass once said, “One part of getting free, free into the soul or into the witness, is the […]
I have grand aspirations of becoming an astute gardener, of knowing the plants, the vegetables, the flowers so intimately that […]
We are going through some problems at the moment, nothing serious, just an endless series of things that seem to […]
On Saturday we had the amazing Workshop for September’s The DOJO. Each month it is 90 minutes of philosophy and […]
One of the key things I am literally hammering into our Integrated Meditation students is to not chase perfection. You cannot be a perfect […]
It is believed that ancient cultures used rituals to counter the fears they had of the unknown. Primarily created to […]
I hear so often that productivity is about time management, or motivation, or how to get things done. Productivity is the output of your […]
Have you ever noticed that when you’re feeling a bit insecure, or cranky, you’re more prone to speaking negatively? I […]
The wiring of the brain, the mind, the ego is such that it’s very challenging for us to see things […]
I have been exploring recently the way creativity in its broadest sense, beyond simply artistic talents, can offer a blueprint […]
To say ‘It’s a weird time’ is to wildly understate the state of the world. Perhaps you are stuck in […]
I received this lovely email from a reader, ‘Hey Jac, a question related to this. I’ve sometimes felt like a […]
When we operate from fear, we view everything as a threat. It’s simply the way we are wired. If we […]
In everyday life I subscribe to the motto “self as cause” which means I believe that ultimately I always have […]
The CEO of Patagonia has stepped down, and her very lovely goodbye note was, “I’ve been thinking a lot about […]
This Zen saying is often repeated replacing Peace or Happiness, instead of Truth. The only peace you will find on […]
In the martial arts Dojo, the object is to learn, so that you can then take the teachings into your […]
Inspiration is important to me. I love that feeling of being inspired, the energy flowing through my veins, the possibilities […]
There is a famous story of karate master Budoken, who had a disciple who infamously walked by a horse that […]
One of the other lines within this chapter of the Tao Te Ching is ‘those who know when they have […]
One joyful thing about penning the Letters is receiving correspondence from readers. One response last week was, that a reader […]
We are all familiar with how when we stop exercising our bodies and muscles can quickly lose their strength, endurance, […]
I cannot even list the amount of failures I have had, for, there are so many. I truly don’t even […]
Right now it’s a freaking challenging time. Even if you’re not being immediately challenged, it’s likely someone you love is. […]
I have been contemplating how aligned Creativity is with juicing the most out of life. Now, whilst the word Creativity […]