L E T T E R from Jac – Clarity and Inspiration
It’s easier to shy away. It’s easier to justify inaction with the idea that one is not personally doing anything wrong. It’s […]
It’s easier to shy away. It’s easier to justify inaction with the idea that one is not personally doing anything wrong. It’s […]
When we are stressed and succumb to our animal nature we become self-centred. Everything and I mean EVERYTHING is happening […]
Right now there is a huge shift happening in the world, and let’s be frank, thank goodness. It can be […]
I’ve come back across from pottering through some of our boxes The New Farmers Almanac, by Greenhorns, a completely delightful […]
Have you ever noticed that when your intuition speaks to you, it’s a physical feeling. It’s like a channeling, a […]
I think the last few months has taught us not to take as much as we may have previously for […]
Some questions for you to start your week, to have a bit of fun with. Share your answers with some […]
Technically we are all a finite story, we have a beginning, a middle and an end. The paradox is that […]
What blocks are in the way of your creativity right now? What is stopping you from expressing yourself creatively on a […]
Being a human is a very complex thing. We are either moving from our heart, acknowledging our privilege, sharing our […]
Anais Nin says, “We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly. We […]
People that have truly encountered the darkness of their own soul, I enjoy a lot. There is a rawness, an […]
Krishnamurti speaks, ‘Simplicity of the heart is of far greater importance and significance than simplicity of possessions. To renounce comfort, […]
From the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali‘Drg darshana shaktyor ekatma tevasmita’ The ego believes we are our thoughts and compels one to […]
Tonglen is a Buddhist practice of working with suffering – ours, and everyone else’s at every opportunity. It is a […]
You know the saying, ‘you are what you eat’, well we are also ‘we are what we think’. So today, […]
We can all talk a LOT about what we want to be doing, big plans, little follow through. Paring it […]
I love the fact that I change. Some days may be more obvious than others and some days may seem […]
Sticking with yesterday’s theme, I wanted to touch more on panic. I tend to panic as my standard go to. […]
Our need to know all the time comes from our thinking mind, and robs us of the present moment. It’s not […]
So back to this idea of the Reward System. (you can read the previous Letter on Resistance and Flow in […]
I am honestly so in awe of how the universe works. Two months back we were to be in Australia […]
What I have learnt about myself is that I sort of held on to some old Catholic beliefs that it […]
Whenever I experience a moment that connects me to my heart, I want to press pause and bathe in all […]
Sri M is one of my favourite teachers, for he combines the richest of spiritual knowledge, with practical modern living. I […]
It’s so tempting to want to look to others to figure out what to do. I have always admired Krishnamurti’s teachings, […]
When I was in government quarantine, Instagram was a life line for me, to my friends, students and the outer […]
I know that change is happening always, it’s the only constant. I believe this, I feel it to be true […]
One of my favourite teachers Ram Dass, was taught by his guru above all other teachings to ‘love everything’. It […]
‘Misogi’ is a Japanese term meaning ‘eliminating the non essential’. Editing out what’s not important or relevant anymore. In the […]
There are so many storms emotionally for us all at the moment. Big fronts come bearing down on us, unexpected […]
On Friday I hosted our live online The DOJO, 90 minute session on Resistance and Surrender, and we explored many verses of the Tao […]
Life is a combination of making it happen (ends up being a small percentage) and things outside of our control […]
Yesterday Arran and I bumped into a friend Dan, who owns a cafe here in Byron with his wife, and […]
In truth, this has been a really vulnerable time for me, I’ve shared more than before, heart of my sleeve, […]
The feeling of getting out of government quarantine was truly something else. I have truly realised how relative time is […]
Hands up who wants resilience? Hands up who also would prefer to not do the dirty work to get it? Resilience […]
We’ve all seen the illustration, the circle of comfort and the arrow of growth well outside and it’s likely we […]
I have found that trusting the universe is an easier task when things are ‘going my way’. I delight in […]
We have been through some stuff in our lives, Arran and I. For some it would mount up a life […]
I thought I would share some of the beauty in what I am learning personally, and what I am learning […]
Over 4 years ago, Arran and I gave away and sold almost all we owned, including all our furniture, and […]
Anne Morrow Lindbergh writes in her beautiful book Gift From the Sea, “I want in fact – to borrow from […]
It’s interesting, I love to learn. I love the possibilities, the fresh thinking that stretch the boundaries of my mind […]
The Mother, Aurobindo’s teaching partner teaches beautifully on despair and it has been something I have really learnt into. Her […]
In a 1979 lecture by Ram Dass he says, ‘Just look at your life and think how many preferences you […]
When I am feeling any of those uncomfortable emotions – anger, frustration, sadness I can be spiky, hard, tight, stuck […]
I’ve found myself pouring out a lot of words at the moment, raw, un-hemmed words, loose threads. I know they […]
One of our students forwarded this Letter that I wrote back in December of last year and I thought that […]
We all have teachers in our lives, that have helped us, taught us. It’s what I do for my living, […]
Trauma is such an interesting experience, the brain seeming to be sliced into multiple parts. You can go through the […]
I completely forgot about Easter, until my daughter asked me a week ago would it be cancelled. How utterly sad, […]
Yes, we have power, always. Never forget this, ever. I do. Often and I need reminding again, often. I temporarily […]
I work one on one with a lot of people around the world, usually immensely successful people locked into a […]
Bamboo is quite incredible. It can be used to build entire buildings, makes for cups and mugs to drink from, […]
I’ve told this story many times, and want to share it again now, as I feel it’s so relevant. There […]
A lot of students that I teach and mentor are having the exact same challenge right now, caught between agonising […]
So often, spiritual teachings are left to hover in the air, an intellectual pursuit, that is segregated and separated from […]
I was in a situation recently where someone didn’t like what was being shared and even though there was compelling […]
Isn’t it an amazing time? In the thick of all the awfulness – all the paradigms and societal beliefs we […]
Have you noticed a truly sharp difference in how you consume and what you consume once in quarantine? Is it […]
There is a Jewish story, that is also told in many traditions with varying tones. The essence of it is […]
Some questions for you to ponder… What is your source? What will you return to? What will you be tolerant […]
This situation at the moment is really dismantling a lot isn’t it. Us as people, our friends, our family, our […]
It’s interesting that until I get really bloody clear about what is important to me (and this is usually via […]
At the moment I can feel myself firming up, more grounded every day. Becoming stronger, more resilient, and I can […]
I woke up yesterday, and for a brief moment, forgot all that had been happening. I stretched, I listened to […]
We can truly lean into the current situation of the pandemic as a way to discover the truth of ourselves. We might […]
This feels powerful as we feel powerless doesn’t it, I am truly taking solace in it. It took me a […]
Outside of comfort is where we grow. This means being uncomfortable is essential for our own evolution. Part of us […]
I do love this quote by Murakami. A man who also wakes at 4.30am every day and writes furiously until […]
When everyone around us is either panicking, or dismissing heavily everyone that is panicking, it’s hard to stay on solid […]
Nature is all about evolving, moving forward, growing and changing. These movements can happen through creation or they can happen […]
‘I was having team with Master Han in his office when the mailman arrived with a letter from the master’s […]
Frequently, we are very good at giving help. Generous, unbounded in our ability to help others. Why? Because helping someone […]
I’m not sure exactly what happened a long time back, it was likely having a small child, being a single […]
Ultimately we all want to feel connected and loved and sometimes in our pursuit of these very things, we get […]
Pema Chodron speaks of this with such clarity, ‘Life’s work is to wake you up, to let the things that […]
When we experience extreme stress or trauma, the fight-flight response is triggered. When this happens, our brain tells us we […]
We don’t get to choose the emotions we feel but we are in charge of the responses we have to […]
I mean is this not a brilliant quote? I have this little pocket book of notes from Pema Chodron, and […]
One of the greatest spiritual teachers of our time, Ram Dass, passed away last week. Ram Dass has been a huge […]
Have you ever received a present and thought, ‘weird, and certainly not what I want’ yet it’s gone onto be […]
I don’t know about you but when I’m looking to change something, a situation, aspects of my life, relationships, projects, […]
Your brain and your attention have limited bandwidth. A certain download of data each day. Only so much you can upload […]
I looked at my Calendar yesterday (you may or may not know how much I live by my Calendar!) and there were […]
When did life get so serious? When did we take ourselves so seriously? One of my core values and something […]
A rope is braided together to strengthen it, without the multiple pieces threaded together it is weak and can break […]
Many times a day as we go about our lives we are having an impact, of course on ourselves, but […]
I used to sprint from anything too painful. Mostly disempowering myself, I would always assume blame, and carry the burden […]
Tim Ferris says “Life punishes the vague wish and rewards the specific ask. After all, conscious thinking is largely asking […]
Do you remember the last time you went searching for something that was hidden, on purpose, designed for you to […]
What would this week look like, if you fully anchored yourself in this? How would you respond in every moment? […]
I have found time and time again, with our students that have had life pulled out from under them that […]
Compassion is normally an outward energy isn’t it, we focus our energy in trying to ‘be’ compassionate to others. Which […]